Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Pillow Blog: Paired Pros and Cons of Cohabitation

In the tradition of the Sei Shonagon's Pillow Book, here's a Pillow Blog: an observational list on some subject or another. 



Dan and I have been living together for about nine months, and Marvin has still not stopped bitching about it. Like my extremely annoying but rather cute cat, cohabitation has been a mixed experience. In no particular order, here are some of the pros and cons of living together I've experienced so far:
  • Dan works from home, so I can get him to pick up my holds at the library
    • I have basically recreated my parents' relationship dynamics, which is weird and gross
  • I now have access to Dan's impressive collection of DVDs and Blu-Rays
    • My living room now has a shelf that functions as a shrine to dying technology, and I would really like to put an armchair there instead
  • Regular warm body to cuddle up next to
    • Regular obstacle to complete bed domination during sleep
  • Dan's feelings towards the cat have improved
    • Marvin's feelings towards us have worsened, and he now believes Dan and I have banded together to annoy him
  • I now have a deep fryer, microwave, and popcorn popper
    • Our kitchen isn't big enough for all of our kitchen crap
  • Someone to talk to
    • Someone who tries to kiss me when I'm trying to think
  • Shared living costs
    • Financial decisions must now also be shared
  • Someone to watch Mad Men with
    • Someone who refuses to watch Game of Thrones with me
  • We can team up to make doughnuts together on a Sunday morning
    • ... 
    • ...
  • There's no cons for that one
Overall, the pros are somewhat stronger than the cons, though the cat would beg to disagree.

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